Aqui vamos de nuevo....

Bueno he decidido convertir el blog en espanol...Asi quizas la familia se vea mas involucrada con lo que sucede con Alan...

...Despues del corte de tu mechoncito de cabello y tanta tristeza que tenias en sus ojitos, le dolio demasiado y cada que se acordaba volvia a ponerse triste, es tan dificil para Alan comprender en ocasiones cosas tan pequenas del diario vivir, en fin al final de cuentas nos salimos un rato de la casa y hablandole y diciendole constantemente que su cabello volveria a crecer y que no pasa nada...las constantes disculpas de Alan por sentirse culpable de haberse cortado su cabello.


Segun yo idee un plan para hacerlo sentir mejor y tratar de hacerle comprender que no pasa nada que todo iba a estar bien...el plan era atar el mechon de su cabello a un globo y soltarlo y se fuera al cielo, mandarselo a los angelitos sonaba como el plan perfecto...(solo por un ratito me sono perfecto)


Pero cuando venia de camino a la casa medite bien el plan y llegue a la conclusion de que es peor mentirle, despues de todo eso lo confundiria mas y si la idea de quedar bien con los angelitos le agradaba iba a llegarme con un mechon de pelo todos los dias, y menos podia premiarle la gracia, pues ya esta bien sabido que las tijeras se usan para cortar papel y bajo mi estricta vigilancia y no para cortarse el cabello o lastimar a nadie...


Asi que bueno llegamos a casa, no toque mas el tema, guarde la bolsita con el cabello en un cajon y Alan se puso a ver la television un rato ya mas tranquilo, cuando lo meti a baniar ya para que se fuera a dormir, volvio a recordar el incidente y es increible pero se le aguaban sus ojitos y me preguntaba por su cabello, aprovechando que estaba relajado cuando lo vesti le segui diciendo que estaba bien que su cabello pronto estaria igual...(sonara insignificante para todo el mundo, pues es algo muy poco notorio, desafortunadamente para Alan es algo sumamente dificil aceptar el cambio de verse el pedazo de cabello faltante)...


Jamas me imagine que estubiera tan apegado a su linda cabellera, con todo esto me pongo a pensar en el dia que cumplamos la meta y se llegue la hora de donarlo, quizas tendremos que aplazarlo, quizas tengamos que dejar que crezca un poco mas largo para que no le quede tan corto y no lo recienta tanto...en fin solo el tiempo nos indicara lo que sea mas conveniente hacer...por lo pronto no cortes de cabello para Alan y no tijeras sin estarlo vigilando de cerca!!!

Y bien cambiando de tema hoy, si hoy hace 5 anios comenzaron los dolores de parto y se acercaba cada dia mas la llegada de Alan a nuestras vidas!!!


Se suponia que la fecha era para el 28 de Enero, aunque mi galancito decidio que naceria 3 dias despues de la fecha acordada, el estaba tan calientito en la barriguita de su mami y se reusaba a salir...


















CONTINUARA......----->

Wow time sure flies!!!

Well, is really being a while since the last time I posted, lots of things had happened meanwhile, we had mom over the holidays visiting and it was amazing, Alan actually remember his grandma, after 2 years he jumped into her as if the time never had passed, I can remember the day she left Alan was screaming as she walked over the checkpoint at the airport, "NO GUELITA WAIT", it took him like 2 days to get over her departure, we would walk home after school and start calling her "Guelita where are you"....I just hope mom can take the next step and move over, I bet my son would definitely enjoy having grandma closer...


Anyways after Holiday Vacations everything is going just perfect, after two weeks off school, Alan really really enjoyed the first day, we've been getting so many good notes after school started on the 3rd, now he have a date for an IEP review on the 21st, I had a chance to over read what teacher has to say about Alan, it is so cute to have a chance to see what his teacher (and most likely my "right hand") has in mind, and what she's bringing to the table on the meeting!!

Well over all, Alan is doing just as fine, he's showing so much more eye contact, so many feelings hiding that we still have to discover, hubby and I we're watching a documentary earlier, it is amazing what a mother could do to help out his autistic son, she traveled all the way from Iceland to Austin TX, (yes I'm still wondering where in the earth Iceland is), anyways she got him into a fabulous treatment, where even if there was no verbal communication, the kid could actually point at letters and make the words to communicate his needs and feelings, yup as incredible as it sounds but they actually reach a lots of improvement in communicating with their son, it is definitely true---> "There is no impossibles for a Mother's love..."

Changing the subject, we're getting ready for Alan's 5th birthday celebration....yeiiiiiiiiiiiii I can't believe it, time really really flies, he's all grown up now, I'm planning a lunch at one of Disney's restaurants and get the Characters over, I feel a little disappointed because they don't have Alan's favorites (Toy Story ones) =( well I think we can work it out with the Little Einsteins, since they where his favorites a while ago, (he still enjoys the cartoons and songs) he definitely would love the plans mommy has for him (I hope so), and the most wonderful thing, I can definitely and with no doubts can say, Alan is HERE, we're getting him, we're winning....

~Diana